Firstly, I have to say that the best revenge in this contest
is just to live your life. However, if you still believe that things will still
work out between you and your ex then try and reconcile with them. But if not,
then yes! This post is for you.
Now that I have your attention,
Rule 1: get it into your
head that he/she is your EX!! In capital letters, its either you accept that
fact or you are damned. He/she was an integral part of you, yes, but sweetie, get
over it because if you don’t then he/she will torment you. Be HAPPY, and live
your life. This is the starting point, if you can do this then you’re good to
go.
Rule 2: Of course I know you’re sad, but must you run to
face book and twitter to tell the world? Post normal stuffs about your normal
life, even if you are not overjoyed, don’t give em’ the feeling that you’re sad
or depressed, no my darling, don’t do that. And hey, you don’t have to block him/her
from gaining access to you through any social media platform. You will be
sending a wrong message you really don’t want to.
Rule 3: Be busy, stay active, depression comes when you’re
always alone thinking about stuffs you shouldn’t be thinking about. Hang out
with friends, hit the gym, stay social you need it. And if for any reason you
run into your ex, stay calm and act casual. Respond to em’ like you do to any
normal friend of yours…..don’t over act. DO NOT talk about the past, the past
is in the past, doing that will only awaken emotion you want dead. Also try not
to spend more time than necessary with him/her. Do not act like you still
remember his likes and dislikes, you really don’t care now, do you?
Rule 4: Look good. No, look even better. This does not
necessarily mean you should over dress. Dress in a way he/she is not familiar
with; you are not trying to impress him/her. If he/she compliments you, say
“thanks”. If he/she makes advances, reject
them out rightly. If you have to call em’ it should be NEVER…which means
never call but pick theirs. And please don’t call their relatives.
Rule 5: See someone, I mean the opposite sex. Get out of
that shell, you are SINGLE! Don’t be desperate, your dressing and lively mood
will attract the right people. Don’t rush into another relationship because you
just came out of one.
If these tips have helped you in the smallest way possible, or may be you think its not right..please lets hear it.Drop a comment
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