Sometimes people wonder what it feels like to grow up without a father. I can pretty much understand that alot of people who grew up in loving families would never be able to appreciate the pain and trauma their counterparts who grew up with single or no parents at all go through daily.
So it was for young Aveion Jnr for 10 years having to go through life with an absent father.Cason Aveion Snr who grew up fatherless himself, ended up continuing the cycle when he abandoned his young son Aveion Jr.
Cason recently came back into his son’s life. And the slew
of emotions that go along with such a reunion played out in front of television
cameras courtesy of Oprah’s OWN Network.
‘I grew up without a father,’ said the elder Cason. ‘I feel
resentment with my father coming up because he's never been around, and when I
talk to my son, I feel like he feels the same way.’
For about ten years, Aveion Jr. didn’t see his father. Now
13, he mirrors his father’s resentment.
‘It felt horrible that you left me,’ Aveion Jr. says as
Vanzant coaches him on. ‘It made me feel like I was a mistake... I loved the person,
but I never see him.’
Aveion Jr.’s mother stands by as the two men try to come to
terms with their estrangement.
‘I think I was a mistake,’ Aveion Jr. said as tears rolled
down his young cheeks and his father shook his head in the foreground.
‘And that made you feel what,’ Iyanla asked.
‘Like I wasn't supposed to be here.’
‘What do you want to tell [him] now that he's back,’ Vanzant
continued probing the boy.
‘That I love him...’ replied Aveion Jr., then with a little
goading from Vanzant he commands his father, ‘You don’t get to leave me again!’
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