WHAT TO DO WHILE WAITING FOR "MR RIGHT"

First, the question should have been, Who is Mr Right?
Denzel Washington's name seemed to have been synonymous with Mr Right in the past until recently when he was rumored(until proven innocent) to have cheated on his wife.
Or could it be Hank Baskett, Kendra's hunk of a hubby? Better still, may be your Prince in golden robes on a horse trying to save you in your day dreams. Or the 6 pack 7ft ebony dude across the street.
Whoever he is will best be determined by you girlfriend!.

Once you have decided, then comes the question, What to do while waiting for Mr Right.
Sit there hoping and praying that he'll come your way someday?
Party all night hoping to meet him in a club, party house or pub?
Stand by the corners,sexily dressed waiting for him to pull over?
Or simply, you cannot be bothered if he comes or not...you're fed up of men cheating anyways?
Again the decision is yours.

But here is what im very sure of.....

Do you believe in God? Good....God's plan for you, yes you is to get married. He has an assignment-a plan of action for you right now. He wants you off of the sidelines,(waiting),and into the game.But satan doesn't..simple. We are in a spiritual warfare where only your faith in God and extensive belief in Him are the only weapons we have. Unfortunately we have a strong (note:not stronger)contender called Fear! And if not put in check will birth worry, anxiety, pain and eventually depression. How then do you combat fear...First lets discuss that which brings fear in the first place... Satan, knowing the truth about God's plan for you, is going to tell you lies like "While God is taking care of everyone else-including your friends who are getting married, He has somehow forgotten about you despite all your efforts to obey His words. It's a lie...Make no mistakes...I've been in those shoes before.
He'll tell you

• You are alone....
• God has forgotten you....
• He has abandoned you....
• You are a failure...a loser...nobody wants you and nobody ever will
• You are not pretty
• Look around you, everyone else is happy except you, look at those babies, cute huh?Take a good look because you'll probably never have them.

Be aware that all of these things are thoughts in your mind/head that come in subtly as you give them audience. Satan's lies cause fears. Now, how do you combat fears?

The bible says For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and against powers,against the rulers of darkness of this world,against spiritual wickedness in high places.(Eph 6:12)
The beauty about this verse is, it doesn't end there.It goes further to tell us how to combat this fear and claim our marital victory.

Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that you may be able to withstand the evil day,and having done all, to stand.(Eph 6:13)

Now what is the armour of God that have been provided for you to overcome these fears?

Eph 6: 14-17 further answers... Standing therefore, having your loins girt about with truth,and having on the breast plate of righteousness....And having your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace....Above all taking the shield of faith,wherewith you shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.(Fiery darts represent the lies satan tries to plant in your mind).... And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the spirit , which is the word of God. Halleluyah!

Friend,once you can tell yourself the truth about your inheritance in Christ Jesus,and waving aside all manners of lies in your mind by taking up the whole armour of God, your are on your way to the alter. I see you walking down that aisle in Jesus name.Amen.

Remember, it is not about being married, it is about being married to the right person so don't force it. take your time, pray and believe. Marriage to "Mr wrong" is worse than anything you have ever faced while single.Ask those who are divorced.

God bless you. Your time is now.

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